You can try massaging lavendar oil into her ears, but if they're that bad it probably won't do much, especially if touching her ears is making her cry out in pain. Not sure how much even aspirin will do, best bet is to just get her on antibiotics as soon as you can, and if you can clean her ears (alcohol free cleaners only) and massage some lavendar in there I would give it a shot. Ear cleaners WITH lavendar are even better, just stay away from the ones with witch hazel because if she's in pain it will probably just hurt more.
she's about 57lbs, I could take her to an er vet but I'ld rather wait till tomarrow becouse it's $200 dollars to walk in the door and Christmas is comming and If I wait to get her to her vet it's $35 to walk in. I gave her aspirin. She seems to be doing a bit better, no fever or anything. I feel so bad for her poor baby