Zaily sleeps on the bed with me every night, and I like that since I live alone. My problem is- she refuses to jump up on the bed herself. She will sit there, whining & barking forever till I pick her up and put her on the bed. I know she can jump up there herself, I've seen her do it several times now. It's getting tiresome to have to drop what I'm doing & boost her up on the bed whenever she starts whining. How the heck do I get her to do it herself? I've tried sitting on the bed & encouraging her to jump, but she just sits there & whines. She'll whine until you pick her up, and if you don't she just goes & lays down on the floor & looks sad. I don't know if she is just not aware that she can get up there herself or if she's just lazy, but this is driving me nuts!